Just when I think I’ve heard it all! In a recent issue of Health magazine, actress Brooke Shields says that she regrets being a virgin for so long. Shields admits that she lost her virginity at age 22, but believes she would have been happier with her body image had she become sexually active at a younger age. She quotes, “I think I would have been much more in touch with myself. I think I wouldn’t have had issues with weight. And to me that is a health regret.”
Are you serious? A health regret! So, by having sex earlier, we can live healthier lives? What a dumb statement! I have never heard any woman tell me that she missed out by not having sex earlier in life. If anything most folks say they wish they would have waited. Most of us if we are willing to be honest, would agree that when we first had sex, it was a huge mistake! I wonder if Brooke has any daughters? And if she does, I wonder if she is going to tell them to have sex earlier rather than wait so they will be more healthy. I mean come on Brooke!
The bible tells us to flee sexual immorality. (1 Corinthians 6:18) That means we should run whenever we are put in the situation to engage in sexual activities outside of Gods design. God tells us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in us. He tells us that we were bought with a price. Therefore we should always honor God with our bodies. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20) Most of us know this, but we don’t apply it to our lives. I know I didn’t when I was a teenager.
Finally, we all must be careful with the words that come out of our mouths. God says, we will give account for every careless word we have spoken. (Matthew 12:36) I continue to confess to God daily and ask forgiveness for all the stupid things that I allow to come out of my mouth. I can only hope that Brooke feels the same way.